One month ago my bestie & I broke up & it has been difficult for myself and others ever since then.
I wish that there was a way that all of us could have made things work but all of us had just grown apart as people & so it was time for us to transport on.
One of the things that all of us have been struggling with was staying close to each other. Every one of us were trying to make a long distance relationship work & while that works for some people & unluckyly it didn’t work for us. Additionally by the time that all of us broke up all of us were pretty odd people than all of us were from the time all of us first met. Every one of us have been dating for 3 years & I really thought that he was the guy that I was going to marry. When the time did come where all of us were able to finally spend some time together he wasn’t ever able to stay at the condo easily long. He was always running off to do emergency Heating, Ventilation, & A/C repairs. He worked as a heating & AC specialist & while he was good at what he did, & I was actually proud of how fantastic he was at his job, it was just another thing that is keeping us apart because of how frequently he had to leave to do heating in AC repairs. I remember this one time all of us got to finally have some time together alone & in the middle of having dinner he had to leave to do yet another emergency heat & AC repair. Somebody didn’t have their oil furnace repaired for the Winter & now they were without heat. If you think how freezing it gets through in this area then you think that that is a real issue. I am disappointed that didn’t work out despite the fact that I hope he finds happiness in his job.