Tit-for-tat arguments seem to come with the territory when you are in a relationship.
It’s the little things that always seem to matter most when you are with someone.
I have many small arguments with our partner Ed, plus it almost becomes a wicked game occasionally as to who will mention something first. Take the temperature control unit, for example. Ed and I generally agree on the temperature range that Ed and I keep in the house… Well, that has not actually accurate. I would actually care about having it a few degrees lower than the compromise that we have settled on. Or, at least, I thought Ed and I were compromising on it. For a while now, the people I was with and I have set the temperature controls to 78 degrees whenever Ed and I occupy the house; During the afternoon, before I leave for work, I set the temperature controls to 73 degrees, but yet, when I am in the house, I absolutely have it be at least 78 degrees or cooler, lately, but, Ed has been setting the temperature control to 78 degrees, and every time I see it I will set it back to 78 degrees. This has been going on for about a few weeks now. Every time I turn around the temperature control is set back to 78 degrees, so I simply change it back to 78 degrees. It’s pretty obvious that Ed and I both believe full well what we are doing plus if the people I was with and I do not mention it at all. I am not sure who will mention it first. At this point, I can actually tell exactly when the temperature shifts, but Ed is pretty sneaky about when she’s resting by the temperature control decreasing it.